(This is a reprint of an essay I have run before, usually at this time of year. As we leave the Winter
Holiday Season and head off into a new year, I think this essay has special
significance for what we face in 2009. The year is beginning amid the most
unsettled conditions in generations. Many are predicting further decline in
equity markets and consumer confidence is at its lowest recorded level. Despite
those and other dark clouds on the horizon, signs are beginning to appear
indicating that the worst of the 2008 Crash is behind us. But turning things around will take a lot of
effort at all levels of government and business, as well as in our every day
lives. All are connected. No sector of society stands apart from any other
sector. This essay presents a metaphorical look at why we really have no other
rational choice than to pull together regardless of our place in society or our
political label if we are to quickly recover from the ravages of 2008.) Several
years ago a great discovery was announced. The largest known plant in
the world had been found in Michigan. It was a single mushroom plant
covering more than 100 acres. Looking over its vast surface in full flower, one sees thousands
upon thousands of mushroom caps looking like a multitudinous crowd of
individual tiny people huddled together under little white umbrellas.
But below ground every stem is connected to every other stem. This
amazing plant seems a marvelous metaphor for us human beings –
individuals on the surface, but one organism deep down. Developmental psychologist Dan McAdams writes in Stories We Live By
about two “fundamental modalities” that organize human needs, desires
and goals: agency and communion. He describes agency as “the
individual’s striving to separate from others, to master the
environment, to assert, protect and expand the self. The aim is to
become a powerful and autonomous ‘agent.’” He describes communion as
“the individual’s striving to lose his or her self by merging with
others, participating in something larger than self, and relating to
others in warm, close and loving ways.” Thinking about that giant mushroom, if each cap had a mind of its
own, how much mental energy might each cap devote to asserting its self
while losing sight of its connection to the whole? But on further
thought I realize that in spite of each cap’s illusion of
distinctiveness and autonomy, the will of the whole 100-acre plant
works ceaselessly below the surface to help organize the needs, desires
and goals of each individual cap. Readers may recall my previous discussions
of the “psychological center of gravity” hypothesis. People within five
years of the adult median age make up the PCG and have a
disproportionate influence on cultural themes and trends. With an adult
median age of 45, today’s PCG is bracketed by the ages of 40 and 50,
making it the oldest PCG in U.S. history. Several years ago the Wall Street Journal carried an article that
reflected today’s middle age PCG’s influence on teens. It told of an
unprecedented flocking of teenagers to churches and synagogues in
search of meaning in life – a quest traditionally more typical of
people in midlife. In many instances, teens are following a course that runs counter to
parental atheism. The WSJ article viewed this as a form of rebellion,
observing, “It doesn’t hurt, of course, that spiritualism and ritual
permeate today’s popular culture.” The article noted Madonna’s study of
Jewish mysticism, Alanis Morrisette and Puff Daddy’s references to
spirituality in their music, teen clothing lines devoted to the dark,
mystical-looking “Goth” fashion, and Chicken Soup for the Teenage
Soul’s long-running position on bestseller lists. But is the unprecedented number of teenagers pouring into houses of
worship merely an act of mass rebellion? Is growing teen attraction to
ancient rites of mysticism simply another fad that will soon pass? The
ROI of untold product promotional dollars rides on the answer. If the PCG hypothesis is valid, increased adolescent interest in
spirituality will not be short-lived. It will remain in force over the
next decade as the PCG ages more. The subterranean workings of the
collective whole, influenced by the PCG, will continue to help organize
the values, needs and goals of teens. Ironically for a nation that has long exalted the values of the
young, marketers to teens can gain keen insights into the values and
behavior of today’ teens by learning more about the values and behavior
of the middle-aged consumers who make up the PCG. None of this is to say that teens are developmentally entering
midlife decades ahead of Nature’s schedule. They simply are tapping
into midlife themes, although they experience those themes in the
context of their untested adolescent worldviews. Today’s middle-aged PCG presents marketers with an extraordinary
challenge: weaving the themes of midlife values into messages for the
young in ways that feel comfortable and cool to them. The PCG’s influence on teens
supports the idea that below the surface we are one, just like myriad
white buttons that belong to the world’s largest plant. Much of who we
are as well as what we need and desire flows from that oneness
regardless of our age. In these days of overly expressed agency, it seems to me that giving
more attention to the communion that binds us together as one would
help extend the feelings of togetherness that we feel so strongly at
this time of year throughout the rest of the year. May 2009 unfold for you one an all as a truly great year!